Breathing Center's Co-Founder

Thomas Fredricksen passed away on June 20, 2017. Today we are presenting his last teaching, which he put in writing a couple of months before his departure from this realm.

Learn This Word And Change Your Life

These are extremely anxious times for many people throughout the world.  Changes occur on a daily basis that could not even have been imagined the day before. Many of us are experiencing a level of STRESS, which feels surreal.

Today, I would like to gift an important word or concept to you. I have personally had great results with this as have many of my students. It has even made me a kinder person in the process. Please read on. 

When I teach this “one-on-one”, I tell my student, “We are going to take two words we know quite well and weld them together. The first word is STRESS. We all know that one too well! The second word is EXHALE”.

So here is our new word: STRESS-EXHALE

Whenever a stressful event occurs, such as a political concern, an interaction with another person who is distraught, or any kind of “bad news” (you name it!), we are often thrown off balance. Since such an event is naturally upsetting, a person often starts to hold his or her breath, which normally is followed by a heavy sigh, often through the mouth. Unlike a healthy Breath Hold used for Buteyko breathing exercises, this halting of breathing triggers hyperventilation and a fight-or-flight response. This deep inhalation and holding of the breath then naturally results in an attempt to express ourselves (e.g. through yelling) or we might suppress our feelings and become aloof.

Either way, we have “taken the bait“ of emotionality, so to speak. We are not only moved into an unhealthy state consisting of hyperventilation, pH imbalance, and anxiety, we are also of no benefit to others and may even harm them with our words or cold detachment.

So try it. The second you start to feel stress: EXHALE.

If you stay focused on this gentle and slow exhaling, you will notice that your emotions will start calming down (even if a stressful event continues to escalate). It takes a while to learn to STRESS-EXHALE, but it is very worthwhile.

This calming out breath helps us to “respond” instead of “react”. I believe that in most situations, your calmer response will make everything go better not only for you but also for everyone around.

I wish you the best of health.
Always breathe gently!

Thomas D. Fredricksen,
Psychologist and Advanced Breathing Normalization Specialist
Co-Founder of


Breathing Center's Co-FoundersI’d like to thank you everyone who sent me cards, letters and flowers to express condolences regarding the recent death of my husband Thomas Drakon Fredricksen. For some reason, I did not expect such a massive response and was pleasantly surprised by it. On the day his passing was announced, more than five hundred people downloaded his CD Buteyko Breathing Exercises & Method. Many of his former students and even people who hardly knew him (for example, people who had just had a brief telephone conversation with him) emailed the Breathing Center sharing that Thomas made a profound effect on their lives by touching their hearts and helping them creating a positive change in their lives. Many perceived him as an older brother they never had.

Many people kindly offered me their support during this difficult transitional time and asked me, “Is there anything I can help you with?”

I did not ask anyone for help then because I felt I was able to manage things on my own. Also I did not know what to ask for.

Recently I realized that there is one favor I feel comfortable asking. I would like to preserve Thomas’ teachings and make them more accessible to asthmatics and other people suffering from hyperventilation. To achieve this, we need to promote his CD Buteyko Breathing Exercises & Method on Amazon. Would you please be generous and take a few minutes to write a review or simply choose a 5-star mark? Here is a link to do so. You don’t need to purchase anything.

With Gratitude,

Sasha Yakovleva
Co-Founder of